Most people are very conscious about their image and identity being polished, prim and upright in public eyes. Some would move mountains and cross mortal limits to just keep glowing in the society. The resources often used to keep this image are usually outfits, accessories and a pompous aura. The position of excellence one holds also impacts this image. However if one dwells into the issue closer you would agree that their are some subtle observations that are more pertinent in the personality of a being than just all this.
If in a crowd you find a person very polite, more so when an unknown person maintains courtesy, dosen’t that impress more. No enlightened person would find it striking if you only materially accessorise life. `
When in a society whether with people known through official interactions or social acquaintance it is always important to maintain proper protocol of interplay. It’s actually irresponsible for any person to believe that the other person is only responsible for all healthy communication. If and only if I maintain etiquette, propriety and politeness of my demeanour and deportment can I expect others to reciprocate in the same vibe.
The section of people who survive on expectations of other people to keep things rolling are the ones who actually shoulder the weight of misunderstandings and interpersonal distress.
But all this apart. If each one of us start being conscious about our civic responsibilities and social commitment this world will become a better place for all of us.
Imagine a society where every person is polite. Each is conscious about their dues in terms of official and social responsibility there will be no expectations unresolved.
Simple ways of self commitment actually makes the society as a whole polished, content and socially complete.