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Moulding in

Life is definitely a sequence of changes. There’s always a need for each of us to mould into situations which unfold as we progress. Holding on to old values and priorities sometimes is a cause of distress. When we are young we are taught to follow every teaching of parents but in the next phase every intelligent child teaches ways to learn better ways of survival. They learn from social interactions and reading things they like. With time it’s healthy to allow each person’s perceptions to change and mould into what they individually perceive as correct. That’s where many slip. The day an adult decides to wear the boots of life in the way they like parents should never assert. The well brought up individual also does not feel intimidated to mould into the new position of choice. The ability to accept the changes in every situation of life without fear is a skill to be learnt.
The constant dependence on the past and the insecurity to let go what we value, sometimes is unknowingly the cause of unhappiness in the present moment.

We should consciously tell ourselves that the place in life where I am in today is where I have chosen to be. Nothing from my previous values or position is in conflict. Each person is moulding and so am I. Contentment in my present moment can come from acceptance of changes that I stepped into.
Peace is a result of choosing to be satisfied with what we achieve and moulding into the sequence of changes that usher as we sail in life.
Sometimes across generations there may be misinterpretations of contexts. That’s perfectly normal. This is also because change is the only constant in this universe. The ability to mould into the new concepts of values is a skill that we should nurture at every stage as we move on.
finally happy is the soul who’s mastered the ability to accept every changing perspective of life.

To choose to be happy today is my choice and to be independent enough to not hold anyone responsible for how my life unfolds is my nurtured maturity.
I consider myself to be happy, peaceful and content.
I try to absorb every change as the law of nature.

Peaceful is the soul who can perceive that “That change is the only constant in this universe” .
Moulding in is the key to happiness.

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